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Changes Are Coming!

3 Nov

We have some very excited changes coming up!  Keep checking back…what could they be!?!?



Don’t Expect a Pendulum to Swing to the Middle

24 Oct

By Stacia Mesleh

A couple of weeks ago, a Facebook friend posted something about putting together a “smack a white boy” music mix.  As I was contemplating this, I realized that if a friend had posted something about putting together a “smack a black boy” mix, I would immediately defriend that person.  I didn’t consider defriending the person in question.  I stopped to think about whether that was right, wrong or hypocritical.  It is socially okay one way, but clearly not socially okay the other way.  Did the pendulum swing a bit to the other side?  On the surface, maybe, but in actuality, definitely not.

Once I started working on the Connect the Dots concept with Ashley, I became aware of social matters that had rarely permeated my conscientiousness before, like heteronormative behaviors, whiteness as the norm, and white privilege.  It’s not that I didn’t care, it’s just that some things are invisible to us like the air we breathe because they so all-pervasively surround us.  If you are part of the “norms” group, they are easy to miss.  If you are not part of that group, they are impossible to ignore.  They impact every moment and can limit your choices, happiness, opportunities, and even possibly– your safety and life.

Since I consciously chose not to carry the racism, homophobia, and ethnocentrism of my family into my adult life, I thought I had done what I could and should to be a kind citizen.  It was definitely a step in the right direction, but there was more to learn.

We can’t simply look at matters on the surface or even evaluate them based on social acceptance.  I started thinking that it is easier to get offended by the knock on white people than it would be to suffer the cruelties historically imposed by white people.  Slavery, breeding programs for people (I’d never thought about this horrific aspect of slavery before reading Toni Morrison’s Beloved), the selling of adults and children, segregation, genocide of Native Americans, colonialism, and the devaluing all bodies and lives that are not white enough.  If you hold white privilege or identify as white, stop and think, really think, about what it would be like to have your child taken from you and sold; no way to protect the life that you would give your own for.  It is too terrible for me to take in.  Imagine (or maybe know) that your ancestors suffered this.   I’ve heard so many times, “That stuff is all in the past!!!  There is equal opportunity now!!”  Not really.  Everything builds on everything else.  Inequality has been woven into the social fabric of this landscape since the onset of European colonization.  Where we are now is the product of everywhere we’ve been.  There are many books that detail the lack of equal accesses to resources that plague people who are not perceived as white.  One that I found informative was Tim Wise’s Between Barack and a Hard Place.  I’m sure a simple Google search could reveal many more.  If you think that there is a level playing field now, please get to reading or just look around!

For people who hold privilege around any identity, it is easy to unintentionally offend.  This is uncertain ground for our intent can be vastly different than our actual impact.  What do you do?  First, own your mistake and apologize.  Then, don’t expect the person you offended to teach you.  This is like putting the impetus for preventing a social problem on the victims of that problem instead of on the people who help keep the problem alive.  This may be something that is too painful for that person to do.  If the person does want to teach—listen please!  You can read and try to learn about white privilege.  Books are easy to look up and read reviews about.  Also, if you engage in an issue about race relations, wait before thinking you know the right answer.  Get a feel for what is going on.  Listen a lot.  Ask how you can contribute instead trying to lead the group.

This stuff gets even stickier when you consider the issue of shame.  None of us likes to be shamed and it is human nature to focus more energy on getting over the embarrassment than on the issue at hand.  If we lived in an ideal world, when we made an error based on a lack of knowledge rather than malice, we would get information given to us about how that affected another person without the virulent dose of shame.  But if we lived in that ideal world, unjust treatment wouldn’t be a part of anyone’s everyday reality and we certainly can’t deny that it is.  The bottom line is that it is easier to be hurt by shame than it would be to live in another person’s shoes who has born the impact of racism an entire life.  It is definitely easier than it would have been to have lived through slavery or segregation as a person of color.  As pendulums always do, it has swung past the middle—by a bit.  And keep in mind that this is just in the realm of social media, and leftist social media at that, not in access to desirable jobs, education, housing, a clean environment, healthcare, or healthy food.  Now, imagine if it had swung all the way to the other side.  What would you do with all that anger?

What’s The Official Story? Cultural Change for a Connectionist World

20 Oct

Dr. Will Tuttle wrote a fabulous article for One Green Planet in which he discusses the fact that the Occupy Wall Street movement has included industrial animal abuse in their list of concerns.  While we wrote about that exciting phenomenon in a recent post, we want to highlight his article for another reason – culture.

In this article, Dr. Tuttle talks about the fundamental cultural change that needs to take place in order for us to create a truly peaceful and just world.  He focuses on the plight of cows in industrial agribusiness and connects that with the pharmaceutical-medical complex in what he calls, and what truly is, a poignant riddle.  

We love this article because it focuses on cultural change and asks what is it about our culture that perpetuates violence, abuse, and exploitation?  We at CtD believe that we need to fundamentally change culture to promote the health and well-being of ALL.  We believe that we need to challenge norms, or standards of behavior, that fuel violence and exploitation.  We need to replace these norms with new, healthy, positive norms.  Dr. Tuttle promotes this when he states:

We can free ourselves when we awaken from the cultural food trance and its official story line—that meat and dairy are natural for us to eat—and switch to a plant-based way of eating that frees the animals, ecosystems, and people enslaved by this official story.

What stories have we been told?  What stories do we buy into?  And who profits?

Guest Post: Why I’m Vegetarian

18 Oct

i wrote one poem, drew one bar napkin sketch, and wrote one essay. one of those was academic, one honest, and one angry. and those were probably in a different order than you’d think.

i kept thinking about when my mom got food stamps and she’d give me the book, and we didn’t know a bunch about food like i do now, but i did know a thing or two about quantity and also about being kinda hungry, so in short order i got good at understanding bargains.

so when i think about being vegetarian now part of me i guess is still 6 and embarrassed with my stupid purple sweatpants and 5lb chub of ground beef. but another part of me loves that 6 year old more than any resentments he can plant, and out of love for him, i can’t suffer the work of the InHuman on quarterly rushes to define a product chain that requires a separation from the reality of the inhumanity of production simply because we’d collapse into a moment of authentic experience if we saw it; authentic experience which for some would be not dissimilar to recognizing other deals we make or were made for us.

similar grinders INVISIBLE inVISIBLE inVISIBLE, peach skin and straight sex and easy bake oven bullshit is easy for me to understand once I saw a couple of cracks; i still can’t intuit the relative ethical proximity  of eating a hamburger to killing a human.  but I think it might be a stupid question because i am missing something really obvious. ­

i don’t eat meat because i really like people. and I’m afraid of what we have to give up to consume autonomy of any kind.


Connectionists Take On Occupy Wall Street

16 Oct

We’ve seen a lot in the online world lately using a connectionist perspective on the Occupy Wall Street (OWS) movement.  While some literally use the OWS message to represent the plight of non-human animals:

…others write about why the movement should include issues beyond a human-exclusive focus.  This article on One Green Planet, for instance, delineates a 4 clear arguments why food policy should be a part of the OWS movement:

  1. The food industry is a monopoly
  2. The food industry mistreats farmers, its own employees, and the environment
  3. Wall Street leaves millions to starve
  4. Politicians are in bed with agribusiness

Please read and share the article for an explanation of these points as well as several relevant links.

Here at CtD, we hope to encourage, support, and build capacity  to advocate for more connections in movements like these.  Regardless of the strategy, we are thrilled to see a push for a connectionist approach to a very, very popular human-focused social justice movement.  It is through efforts to be inclusive to ALL that we will truly attain a peaceful and just world.

Connectionist Resource: Because We Must

11 Oct

We’re thrilled that Ashley’s going to be writing for the brand new organization and blog, Because We Must.  Check out her writer introduction here.  In it, she talks about why she connects the dots, her theory of change, and what led her there in the first place.

Because We Must is founded on the idea that all forms of oppression and, in turn, the struggles against them, are intimately connected.  Because We Must strives to be a source for informational media that illuminates both the diversity and interconnectedness of struggles against oppression.

We think Because We Must is a fabulous educational resource that will grow and grow!  We’re proud to contribute to it and hope that you’ll explore all that it has to offer.

Connected to Red Velvet Cupcakes!

9 Oct

Our friend and supporter, veganroi, made us mini polka dot red velvet cupcakes!  He used beet juice for the coloring, so they turned out brown.  If you want authentically red cupcakes, you could use vegan red food coloring.  His recipe is a modified version of this one from Vegan Machine:

Cupcake Ingredients

  • 1 C Unsweetened Vanilla Coconut Milk
  • 1 tsp. Apple Cider Vinegar
  • 1 C Sugar
  • 1 1/4 C Flour
  • 2 1/2 Tbsp. Canola Oil
  • 2 1/2 Tbsp. Apple Sauce
  • 2 Tbsp. Cocoa Powder
  • 2 Tbsp. Liquid Red Food Coloring(can adjust to you desired color)
  • 2 tsp. Vanilla Extract
  • 1 tsp. Baking Powder
  • 1/2 tsp. Almond Extract
  • 1/4 tsp. Baking Soda
  • 1/4 tsp. Salt
Cupcake Instructions
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  Place cupcake liners in your cupcake pan.
Combine coconut milk and apple cider vinegar in a bowl and let sit for 5 minutes to thicken.
Combine sugar, oil and extracts in a large mixing bowl.  Once your coconut milk mixture has thickened, add it to you mixing bowl.  Combine thoroughly.
Add the rest of your dry ingredients, mix until all lumps are gone.
Fill cupcake lines 2/3 full.
Cook in the oven for 17-19 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the center of a cupcake comes out clean.
Wait at least 30 minutes, or until completely cool to frost.
Recipe will make 12 regular sized cupcakes, or 24 (+) mini cupcakes.
Icing Ingredients
  • 3 C Confectioners Sugar
  • 1 C Vegetable Shortening
  • 4 Tbsp. Soy Milk
  • 1 tsp. Almond or Vanilla Extract (vanilla will tint it slightly darker)
Icing Instructions
This makes far too much icing!  Half the recipe at the very least!  Combine all ingredients in a mixing bowl and mix thoroughly.
Thank you, veganroi!